Men cheat because of a broken heart, lack of options or the thrill in the chase. If you’ve been with a woman for a long time and you notice the signs she’s cheating, then you should be concerned – but only if it’s not you.
It might hurt to believe that your woman is off grinding behind your back, but it’s better to face the facts than to build up a life with someone who is deceiving you.
The first signs that she is cheating on you might be small and easy to brush off. She starts coming home later than usual or she’s more elusive about her whereabouts. These things can be easy to write off as coincidence, but if you start putting the pieces together, they paint a pretty clear picture.
If your woman is cheating on you, she’s likely to be more distant and less interested in intimate moments with you. She might also start picking fights for no reason or showering you with undeserved criticism. These are all ways of pushing you away so she can have more space to pursue her affair.
If you notice that your woman has completely changed her appearance or is suddenly spending a lot of money on new clothes and makeup, it could be a sign that she’s trying to impress someone else. Cheaters often go through a “rebirth” of sorts when they’re starting an affair, making them appear like new people altogether. If your once low-maintenance partner is now constantly primping and preening, it might be time to ask some questions.
Finally, if you notice that your sex life has diminished significantly or that your partner isn’t interested in intimacy anymore, it could be another sign that she’s cheating on you. Cheaters often lose interest in sex with their primary partner because they’re getting all the satisfaction they need from someone else. If your partner suddenly seems disinterested in physical intimacy, it may be time to have a talk.
It’s not always easy to tell if a woman is cheating on you. She might be spending more time at work or out with friends, but that doesn’t necessarily mean she’s being unfaithful. However, there are some telltale signs that she might be seeing someone else behind your back.