A good relationship is just don’t just happen, they need to work on it. Here are a couple of processes you can follow:
Love Them for Who They Are
You need to accept your partner as they are. Don’t try to change them and accept that you can only change yourself, not anyone else. However, you may support them to make positive changes in their life but never try or need to fundamentally change them. If you cannot accept, you need to set boundaries to avoid getting hurt or move out of the relationship.
Do not control your partner
We all love to control others more or less – be it with love or violently. But it is known that violence is not an acceptable way is not a way to control partner. So, do not attempt to control your partner ever otherwise you will see a broken relationship. Because no one certainly enjoys a control freak partner.
Support their interests
You do not have to support all your partner’s stupid hobbies. But you should listen to them and when they talk about their real interests, give them good advice, time and space to pursue their interests as well.
Be a Good Listener
We all want a person in our life who will listen to us. If you need a good relationship, you need to be a good listener. Don’t just nod your head but listen to them carefully. While doing so, ask them questions or if they have any then try to give answers as well which will strengthen the bond of yours. A good relationship requires lifelong maintenance and effort, but the effort has to be good.
Respect for each other
Respect is the other thing which is necessary for a good relationship. You should listen to your partner when he/she is talking. Respect your partner’s opinion by allowing them to express fully, even if you don’t agree with that. Take time to understand your partner’s views and then give your opinion.