Life is full of ups and downs. You can’t have bright sun for the entire day; darkness always prevails , no matter in what way. You may suffer from diseases or met with injuries at any point of your life. But that doesn’t end your life. All what you need is a person to encourage and love you with all your heart.
Being into a relationship too, isn’t an easy task. And an interabled relationship is even more challenging. You may be required to give extra care and attention or undergo social obstacles while dealing with it. It’s important to stay firm and show your love for your special one. Following points will help you maintain a successful Interabled relationship.
1- love yourself
Self love is the most important. If you are differently abled, firstly you need to accept yourself. If you don’t accept who you are, or feel demotivated just because you are little different than your partner or other, you cannot live happily. If you will love yourself, your partner will automatically start loving you. Just don’t hesitate or feel diffident for it.
Undoubtedly, communication is the key to a happy relationship. But in an interabled relationship, the role of communication even magnifies. It’s very important to discuss your needs with your partner. You should tell them your commitments, schedule and what you need at any point of time, so they can manage accordingly. Lack of communication or expressing leads to conflicts.
3- Not exclusive of Romance
Care and Romance aren’t mutually exclusive. It’s not that you need separate time to take care of your partner and for being romantic. If your love is true, you will definitely love caring for them. You won’t consider it as a job but an opportunity to spend time with them. For instance, while serving them food or changing their clothes, you can pause for a minute to kiss them, and have fun doing every task.
4- Express gratitude
You may become so frank with your partner that you avoid all kinds of formalities. It might always make you happy when they care for you, but thanking them is important. You should remind them how grateful you are for all the care they do. A simple Thank You or a small note can make them feel happy.
5- Have a backup
It’s important to not wholly depend on your partner for every work. You should always have someone else available to help you out whenever needed. Total dependency on one can also burden your partner. It’s advisable to look for some other family members or outsiders for care.