One of the worst qualities of human beings is that they expect a lot from others. We might not say it loud but all of us has some or other expectations from the relationships we form in all our lives be it with our friends, soulmate, relatives, cousins or colleagues. Having expectations isn’t a bad thing but most of the time people have unrealistic expectations from relationships or people. When the expectations aren’t fulfilled, a person tends to get sad and disappointed. Thus, instead of feeling disappointed later in life, you should stop expecting the below-mentioned things from other people.
Read your mind
The concept of reading one’s mind is completely false. The novels and films have fed us with the idea that the person who is closer to us has the supreme powers of reading our mind and can also understand our unsaid emotions. However, this isn’t true. The human brain is complex and one never knows what it can think. If you want the other person to understand your emotions and feelings, then you need to speak.
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People to change
We should always keep this mind that nobody changes themselves for any other person in their life. Though you can influence them to behave in a certain manner, in the end, it will their call regarding whether they wish to get influenced by you and change themselves. Thus, never live in the misconception that someone will change themselves for you.
People to love as you do
There are times when we love someone unconditionally and want them to reciprocate our love and affection in the same manner. However, it isn’t possible every time. You should know that loving someone in a particular manner was your choice, you can compel the other person to reciprocate your feelings. Never expect someone to love you as you do.