You should wisely choose what to speak to your partner as words once spoken can’t be taken back. The saying, ‘Tongue has no bones but is strong enough to break a heart’ is absolutely true. Be patient while conversing with your better half and don’t reach a point of irreplaceable damage.
Here are a few things you should never say to your spouse.
Don’t use always and never
You should not use absolutes while trying to complain about something to your partner. It can make them feel that you are criticising them or you have a problem in everything they do. Instead, try to tell him/her about your feelings in a subtle way. You should try to tell about your expectations from them rather than counting their shortcomings.
Don’t threaten divorce
This is the one of the worst things you can say to your spouse. If you feel that things are not working then threatening about divorce will not do any good. It will make him/her feel that you are not interested in the relationship and want to set yourself free. It will lead to uncertainty and disconnect in your relationship with your significant other.
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Comparing two people has never been a good idea. Instead of saying what other people do and how good they are, you should simply tell your partner about what you want them to do. Try to be more appreciative towards your significant other.
Every human perceives a particular situation differently. Thus, you should never comment or judge on how your partner is feeling. It will make them feel that you are insensitive towards them and do not care about their feelings and emotions. While in a relationship, both the people should feel safe showing and voicing out their vulnerabilities without having the fear of getting judged.